Category Archives: Middle East

Mount of Olives: A Walking Tour

Mount of Olives, a hill on the eastern side of Jerusalem, was the site of Christ’s betrayal in the Garden of Gethsemane.  There are several churches commemorating events of Christ’s Agony on the Mount of Olives.  Jewish cemeteries are a prominent feature on the hill.  You’ll also find it is a GREAT place to view the Old City.  There are some excellent views of the Dome of the Rock!

As we were without motorized transport for the day, we opted to do a guided walking tour on the Mount of Olives.  For the photography, and of course the history, visiting the Mount of Olives is  a good way to pass the afternoon.  Here are some of the churches and sites we saw on our visit.

Enjoy,
~j

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Jerusalem: The Old City

Jerusalem is Israel’s largest city by surface, but has less population than Tel Aviv.  Overstating the historical significance of Jerusalem would be difficult.  The Old City of Jerusalem is a UNESCO World Heritage site, and home to the cornerstones of three faiths, Judaism, Islam and Christianity with approximately 460,000 Jews, 225,000 Muslims, and 15,000 Christians.

Religion has the power to unite people with set rules, beliefs and traditions.  A Christian, Muslim or Jew in the USA,  Asia or Africa will all have relatively the same teachings based on their specific faiths.  This creates a beautiful sense of community.

On the other hand, Religion has as much, if not more, power to divide.  There is discord both amongst, as well as within each of the three faiths and their sects.  Catholics and Protestants, Shia and Sunni, Orthodox or Conservative etc.  Consequently, there has been much violence amongst and within the three for as long as they’ve been practiced.

The Western Wall, The Dome of the Rock and The Church of the Holy Sepulchre, along with numerous synagogues, mosques, churches, their associated traditions and teachings have anchored these faiths to the city for millennia.

We’ve traveled the world in a secular way to some of the most holy places for many faiths.  I’ve done my best to research, and experience aspects of these religions, and don’t intend offence to anyone reading.  I’ll simply tell you what we saw in the Old City of Jerusalem.

The Western Wall – The Kotel

If you’ve ever seen a travel show about Jerusalem, you’ve seen the Western Wall with the extraordinarily devout Jewish people rocking back and forth whilst praying or reciting the book of psalms.  (Some visit the site daily to recite the entire book.)  The Prayer Plaza is a site of pilgrimage for Jews and non-Jews world-wide.

The Western Wall - Jerusalem
The Western Wall – Jerusalem

Visitors tuck slips of paper with prayers and requests into the wall in hopes that they’ll be answered.  Tradition says a person who goes to the Western Wall, and prays for 1 request for 40 consecutive days will have that request granted.  FYI: You can even sign up on-line to have someone make the 40 days of prayer for you by proxy, for a fee of course!

But, why is it more effective to pray at the Western Wall than anywhere else?!?  What’s wrong with praying at a  neighbourhood synagogue, home, etc.? Couldn’t the person just make the request from Albuquerque if needed? The answer can be sweetly summed up with a quick Google search for some Rabbinical wisdom.

…although G‑d is everywhere, His light shines stronger in some places than in others. He compares this to the human body: You are everywhere in your body, yet you are far more conscious of your mind than of your toes. So too, in the universe that G‑d created, there are places, times and states of being where we are able to be more aware of Him—and it is from those places/times/states that our prayers can fly best.

from: http://www.chabad.org

We arrived in Jerusalem during Jewish holiday of Shavuot, and saw thousands of people making their way to the Wall.  The assortment of religious attire is fascinating!  Fuzzy fur hats, long woolen coats, knotted strings on shirt corners, tiny boxes tied to the top of the head, the list goes on. Check out  the Tefellin, the Tallit, the Shtreimel, and why they are customary to some, but not others.

Shavuot in Jerusalem
Families making their way to the Western Wall for Shavuot

Jewish women also have specific dress codes with black being the color of choice for most, with very modest hemlines and collars.  Most had their hair covered as is mandatory for married Orthodox women. We did not notice any women wearing pants.

The Bar Mitzvah celebrations we saw were super fun, but also upsetting.  The area is segregated into men’s and women’s prayer sections, so a mother isn’t able to attend her own son’s Bar Mitzvah celebration, but has to watch from behind a fence.  Though tradition, this was kind of unfortunate.

Bar Mitzvah Celebration, Jerusalem
One of the many Bar Mitzvah celebrations we saw approaching the Western Wall Plaza

The ancient, 2,000-year-old stones of the Western Wall have witnessed the Jewish people’s birth, exile, and redemption.  This is where the Jewish nation’s past mingles with its hopes for the future.

from: http://www.thekotel.org

Outside of Temple Mount, the Western Wall is the most sacred site for the Jewish faith.  What we see today is  a remnant of the western retaining wall of the Second Temple built by Herod the Great.   Although, there is much more of the wall visible beneath the surface which we were able to see.

We did the tour of the Kotel or  Western Wall tunnels.  If you’re going to Jerusalem, make sure to pre-book a time for this tour as it is well worth the visit.  The Western Wall is a captivating and bewildering piece of the religious significance in Jerusalem.

The Dome of the Rock
The Dome of the Rock, Jerusalem
The Dome of the Rock, Jerusalem

This shining dome pictured above the Western Wall is an iconic symbol of the Old City of Jerusalem. The glittering golden dome was not always golden; it was refinished in the early ’90’s to its current state.  The dome is only a small part of the beauty of the building.  The Islamic art covering the exterior is phenomenal.

In addition to the Dome of the Rock, The Dome of the Chain and the Al-Aqsa Mosque are atop the site.  Muslims believe the “Rock” is the spot that Muhammad visited on his Night Journey, and the al-Aqsa Mosque is the spot from which Muhammad ascended to Heaven with the angel Gabriel to pray with other prophets.

As the third holiest site in Islam, The Dome of the Rock is obviously an important place of worship.  Unfortunately, due to conflict, Israeli police restrict the access of Muslim Palestinians to the site.   Men from the West Bank must be over 35 in order to apply for a permit to visit the site, and even then they are typically restricted to access on Muslim holidays only.

As non-Muslims, we weren’t permitted to enter either of the mosques, but we were able to tour the exteriors and grounds freely. On our return to Canada, a few people asked why we didn’t just say we were Muslim and go into the mosque.  Well…not only would that be dishonest, but also pretty obvious that we’re not Muslim through not knowing mosque customs or behaviour etc enough to pass muster.

The other huge reason is that faking isn’t really an option when officials ask visitors to quote passages of the Qur’an in Arabic at the entrance.   I have only mastered a few basic Arabic phrases, and I’m sure basic greetings,  “a man and a boat,” or, “a girl and a bicycle,” don’t cut it!

Holy of Holies warning - Temple Mount
Holy of Holies warning – Temple Mount

This Dome is also atop the holiest site on earth (The Holy of Holies)  for Judaism, which Jewish Law bans Jews from visiting. The Dome covers the Foundation Stone, believed by Jews to be the first part of the earth to come into existence, and the spot where God gathered earth to create Adam.   Jews also believe the rock is  the foundation for the Ark of the Covenant.

The Dome of the Rock is a flash point for tension.   The Friday that we toured the Mount of Olives, there was a scuffle/riot/police situation going on at the Temple Mount.

Recently, I read that the Temple Mount has been temporarily closed to visitors, and that the age minimum of worshippers from the West Bank was raised from 35 to 50 years. Clearly, there is no constancy or certainty of access which  really is unfortunate.

The Church of the Holy Sepulchre

The holiest place in Christendom is The Church of the Holy Sepulchre.  Christians believe the church is the site of the crucifixion, burial and resurrection of Jesus.

The Holy Sepulchre Church, Jerusalem
The Holy Sepulchre Church, Jerusalem

The Holy Sepulchre is nothing fanciful outside.  The exterior is blandly nondescript.  Oddly enough, the interior an utter hodge podge of decorative styles inside from highly ornate to completely run down and fire damaged.

At the time of the Crusades, there were  three primary denominations appointed to care for the church, Greek Orthodox, Armenian Apostolic and Roman Catholic Churches.   Since then, there are Coptic Orthodox, Ethiopian Orthodox and Syrian Orthodox churches and shrines within and around the Holy Sepulchre.

A schedule has been made to regulate times and places of worship for each sect.  Since 1192, the keys of the Holy Sepulchre were entrusted to a Muslim family, as none of the factions could agree on who should hold the key for fear of limiting the others’ access. A whole other kind of conflict exists at this holy place!

Eleven monks – seven of them Ethiopian, four Egyptian – were hurt in the violence which followed as the rivals hurled stones, iron bars and chairs at each other.

from: http://www.news.bbc.co.uk

For example, a 2002 scuffle between the Ethiopian Orthodox Church and the Coptic Church of Egypt that resulted in serious injuries.  And this, all because the Ethiopians objected to a Coptic Monk moving his chair a mere 8 inches in an attempt to find shade on a stifling summer day.

It probably doesn’t help that in 1970, the Ethiopians changed the locks on the rooftop chapel while the Coptics were attending midnight prayers, which is why the Coptic Monk was sitting watch/staking claim to the chapel in the first place.  The behaviour is mind-boggling!

Clearly, they’re a ridiculously territorial passionate bunch at the Holy Sepulchre, and any violation on boundaries  can bring on fisticuffs.  I don’t think this video shows the ethic of reciprocity that is supposed to be embodied by the Golden Rule.

Nothing represents the absurdity of the discord quite as well as The Immovable Ladder.  This little cedar ladder has been the source of conflict for over a century.  Due to Church governance, no cleric of any of the orders may move or rearrange property without the consent of all of  the other 5 orders.

No agreement can be made on who has the right to move the ladder.   To maintain status quo, no one dares touch it.  Yes, folks, that’s a 150-year-old argument about a ladder! (FYI: You can see it under the right window in the photo of the church above)

We didn’t see any of this conflict during our visit to this church.  We did wait with hundreds of pilgrims (mostly Russian and Ethiopian) to visit Jesus’ tomb.  The group in front of us was chanting and singing while waiting.  The zombie drone-like chanting was FREAKY, but the singing was pretty.

The tomb, the actual Holy Sepulchre, is the last stop on the Via Dolorosa, a walk following the 14 Stations of the Cross believed to trace Christ’s footsteps to the crucifixion.

The Via Dolorosa

We walked the Via Dolorosa in a round about way while exploring the Souk.  Some of the stations were very difficult to find.  Scholars doubt the path Jesus took was anywhere near this current path.   Through many centuries, they’ve been created, venerated and become fact to the faithful.

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We visited stations 10-13 inside the Church of the Holy Sepulchre, but it wasn’t always possible/polite to photograph.  For example, there was a line to visit Golgotha.  Stopping to photograph and hold up legit pilgrims would have been obnoxious.

The Old City of Jerusalem, and the little we learned about traditions and religious practices was incredibly fascinating, frustrating and a little frightening at the same time.  The fervour of worship was unlike anything I’ve ever seen.

Faith, rather than fanaticism, entwined with tolerance would make for a much more peaceful region.  Here’s hoping.

~j

Israel and Palestine: Street Art

When we had finally confirmed we were going to the Middle East, and actually able to visit Bethlehem, I was super excited for the historical aspects of the visit, but also the impressive art that would be on the separation fence.   I had seen works by Banksy on the wall, and read up on some of them, and the reactions they caused.

Admiring such a torturous, agonizing structure definitely left me feeling pretty crummy, but at the same time, I understood the need to turn the wall into something inspiring–covering something so ugly with beauty, or even just a tiny political kick to the powers that be.

I’ve been reluctant to post some of the photos as I don’t read Arabic or Hebrew, and cannot manage to find a proper translation for some of the pictures.  It is NOT my intent to post anything the perpetuates hate or racism.  Based on the pictures accompanying the writing, my guess is they’re not, so I’m taking the risk.   I’ve managed to painstakingly translate some of the Hebrew.  Mr. H. Vacui is quite the poet…

Enjoy
~j

Palestine: The West Bank

Given the most recent Israeli/Gaza conflict, some back ground information is probably critical.  Let’s face it, Israel and the Middle East don’t get a lot of great press when it comes to safety and security.  Due to lack of interest, global awareness or even opportunity, some people don’t have any knowledge of WHY the conflict even exists.  Here is a very brief explanation:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y0yy-pzoFg0&feature=youtu.be

While I can’t claim to be an expert in international politics in any way, I can tell you what we saw.  For background, we visited the West Bank–not Gaza.  There is a difference!  We crossed at a pedestrian only checkpoint, as most are, so we either had to rent a car, or hire a guide with a vehicle.   Navigating the road restrictions was more than we wanted to bargain for by ourselves, and we were forbidden from driving our rental car in the West Bank.  As a result, we hired a guide for the day.

Warning
There are 3 areas, A, B and C. A is controlled by PNA, B is patrolled by PNA, but enforced by IDF and C is IDF.

Most news footage of the Middle East is typically of missiles, rubble, and agonizing grief. Mainstream media does more to misinform than it does to enlighten when it comes to Israel/Palestine conflict, and the portrayal of the people living in these areas.    I didn’t feel unsafe in any way where we were.  There was one freaky road sign, that Salwa explained to us. Israeli Defence Forces (IDF)and Palestinian National Authority (PNA) control three different areas, A, B and C, in the West Bank.   FYI: Hamas controls Gaza.  HUGE difference.  Google it if you like.

Here is some information about our guide, Salwa, an actual human being from Palestine.  Salwa is a Palestinian woman, who was born in Colombia.  She grew up the West Bank, and now lives with her husband and daughters near Beit Jala.  Her family lived in Detroit, MI for a while when her Palestinian husband was working there as a university professor.  She’s a witty  woman who speaks several languages. During the course of the day she spoke English, Arabic, French and Spanish.

Salwa is a Catholic, not a Muslim.  It always seems to be portrayed that all Palestinians practice Islam.  (Thanks network news!)  She explained to us that religious faith is listed on identification papers.  I asked what would happen if a person doesn’t believe in anything?  She answered that it isn’t possible to have a choice of “no religion.”  For the sake of profiling, if the person selects none, they are by default listed as the same faith as their parents.

Salwa was willing to answer our questions about day to day life under occupation in The West Bank.  Let’s begin the recap of the day…

Rachel’s Crossing – Israeli Check-Point

We crossed from Jerusalem at Rachel’s Crossing.  This is the closest crossing to Bethlehem, Nativity Square, and some of the churches and monasteries we wanted to see.

There is a stark contrast between the Israeli side and the Palestinian side.  In a conflicted way, I was loving the art on the wall.

Orthodox Monasteries

We arranged to visit the Mar Saba Monastery in the Kidron Valley, and St George’s Monastery in Wadi Qelt, as well as the Monastery of the Temptation in Jericho.  All three are Greek Orthodox Monasteries.  Salwa actually thought we were Orthodox because we wanted to see them.  That’s funny!  FYI:  As females, Salwa and I weren’t allowed into Mar Saba Monastery.  We waited outside while a young kid came out to offer us water and cookies.

Jericho

Jericho is thought to be the world’s lowest lying,  oldest, continually inhabited city.  It is approximately 850 feet below Sea Level. There have been archaeological evidence of settlements up to 10,000BC. That’s pre-pottery folks!  Another fun fact–Jericho has the World Record for the longest cable car below Sea Level.  We stopped in Jericho for lunch which included Knafeh, a traditional Palestinian desert.

Manger Square, Bethlehem
UNESCO Designation
UNESCO Designation, Church of the Nativity Bethlehem

The Church of the Nativity in Bethlehem is traditionally thought to be the birthplace of Jesus.  As of 2012, the basilica is a UNESCO World Heritage Site.  We visited the Grotto of the Nativity, and saw the 14 pointed silver star that marks the spot of Jesus’ birth.  Unlucky for you, the photos were a blur.  We were being rushed by a crowd, and Salwa was being shushed by one of the Orthodox Monks.  (She said he usually gives her a hard time for being too sassy  when she’s there.)

The Wall

I started this entry with photos of the Wall, it is called a Security Fence, a  Separation Fence, an Anti-Terrorism Wall, a Racial Segregation Wall and an Apartheid Wall.   Prior to even planning a trip to Israel, I saw a news story about the wall and wanted more information.  A couple of the books that I found helpful were  A Wall in Palestine and Behind the Wall: Life, Love and Struggle in Palestine.   There are so many awful, infuriating stories to be told.  Stories of separation, resilience, desperation, and strength of spirit.

I had been asking Salwa a lot of questions about the wall and living under occupation.  She actually stopped the car, started talking to a man who graciously invited us into his home so that we could see how construction of the wall affected his family. It was heart-breaking!  Here is what we saw from his balcony.

Essentially, the wall serves to protect one side, and imprison another.  Courtesy of googling “effectiveness of the separation barrier” Israeli statistics say that between 2000 and 2003 there were 73 suicide bomber attacks, and from 2003 to 2006 there were only 12.  With 521 attacks stopped during that same period.    That’s A LOT.

Both sides are being driven to desperation.  There has to be a better way.
~j

The Bahá’í Gardens of Haifa

UNESCO DesignationHaifa, in Northern Israel, is home to the Bahá’í Gardens.  The Garden houses the Shrine of the Bab which is a UNESCO World Heritage Site, and one of the most holy places for the Bahá’í religion.

Because I’m a total nerd, I researched the Bahá’í faith prior to visiting the centre.  In a nut shell, the religion is monotheistic, so there is one all-powerful God.  Bahá’ís emphasize a spiritual unity of all people.  One of the main beliefs is that no religion has a monopoly on the truth.  They believe that all are true at the spiritual core, but have diverged through their social teachings.  Bahá’ís seek to combine all teaching of the holy men into one tidy package.

The Bahai'i Gardens, Haifa

The gardens were spectacular.  They truly are some of most gorgeously manicured gardens I’ve ever seen.  Viewed from the base of the gardens, or from the top of Mt. Carmel, they’re beautiful.

The Bahai'i Gardens, Haifa

Nazareth: Shawarma & The Basilica of the Annunciation

If you want to know where to find the BEST Shawarma in Israel, look no further than Nazareth.  This historic biblical town may be full of crazy drivers, winding roads, and hoards of Ethiopian pilgrims, but they 100% know a thing or two about perfecting this delicious food!

Let’s begin the story with why were in Nazareth for lunch  in the first place.    Nazareth, “the Arab capital of Israel” is home to The Basilica of the Annunciation.  The basilica was consecrated in 1969.  It was built on top of 4 previous churches at the same site, and over the grotto thought to be the Virgin Mary’s house.  So, at least 5 churches later is the present day basilica in Nazareth.

The walls are adorned with artwork from all over the world that represents the Virgin and Child.  I was loving the variation on a theme.  See for yourself…

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After touring the building and grounds, we wandered on some of the surrounding streets.   Kazanova Kiosk was the perfect spot to grab something to eat quickly before getting back on the road.  There is a great little seating area just to the right of this little gem of a place.  Super quick service, and so, so delicious!   I really wasn’t expecting much for tasty options so close to the Basilica in a touristed area.  (The customer before us paid in US dollars which is usually a sign to run in the other direction.)

Shawarma Map Nazareth
The not so secret location for you!

If you’re in Nazareth, and  you’re looking for some divine shawarma, this is you’re place!  Tell them I said “Hi!”
~j

Masada: The Mountaintop Fortress

Masada UNESCO designationMasada is a UNESCO World Heritage Site, and one of Israel’s most popular attractions.  For our first night in Israel, we stayed at the Masada Youth Hostel and Guest House.  FYI: The Hostels in Israel are like no other.  This place was more like a convention centre!   We visited the ruins of this mountaintop fortress that overlooks the banks of the Dead Sea.

There is a cable car to get to the top of Masada. (There is also a switch-back pathway to the top, but it looked BRUTAL, and it was HOT in the desert!)  Masada has the ruins of one of  the palaces of Herod the Great at the top of the mesa, as well as the remains of Roman camps at the base of the fortified hill.

I didn’t know much about the history of Masada prior to visiting, and actually found the site rather informative.  In 73AD Masada had been under Roman siege for two years as one of the last Jewish strongholds when it was finally taken.  Rather than succumb to Roman rule and slavery, the Jews of Masada chose to commit mass suicide.

Judaism prohibits suicide, so the men of Masada drew names, and killed each other down to the last man who would commit suicide.  There was a whole exhibit showing pieces of the clay shards with names found on the site.   Almost 1000 people were killed.

The synagogue at the top of Masada is thought to be one of the oldest in Israel.  While we were at the site, there was a group singing in the synagogue.  It was simultaneously eerie and beautiful.

From Masada we made our way to the Tiberias.  Stay tuned…
~j

Border Crossing Aqaba to Eilat

After we had finished our Bedouin experience, we reunited with our German friend to taxi to the border crossing.   To cross from Jordan into Israel, we used the Wadi Araba border crossing from Aqaba to Eilat.  This is a pedestrian only crossing with about 100m of no man’s land to walk through to get to the custom’s office.  I can honestly say I’ve never a tank gun pointed in my direction before then!

Directions to Egypt and Jordan, Eilat Israel
Directions to Egypt and Jordan, Eilat Israel

Once through customs (which was a total breeze, our local airport is more stringent!) we made our way to the rental car company.  Renting a car in Israel was our first experience with driving abroad. So liberating!Car rental was not overly expensive, distances are not extreme given the size of the country–especially compared to Canada where driving for 10+ hours to get to somewhere in the next province isn’t unusual!

Eilat is a haven for bird watching being a crossroads for migratory birds from Asia, Africa and Europe.  It’s also a coveted site for SCUBA divers wishing to dive in the Red Sea.  You can even swim with  Whale Sharks!  We didn’t have time for either, not that you could pay me to do SCUBA.  FYI: The water of the Red Sea–not red!

The Red Sea
The Red Sea, Eilat Israel

Once we had the car, we realized we needed a quick pit-stop for continuing our journey.  We stopped at McDonald’s.  Yes, I know, roll your eyes!  But, it was different–kosher food laws and all, so we wanted to check it out. No bacon or cheese to be found on a burger anywhere!

Kosher food wasn’t the only shocking difference.  How about these fellows and their accessories?

Israeli McDonalds
Is this different from your local McDonalds?

That’s not something we see at the arches here!  Any thoughts?
~j

ps: We usually check out McDonald’s at least once while away.  There’s almost always something crazy on the menu that we’ve never seen before.  Sometimes the choices are HILARIOUS!

Wadi Rum: Camping with Bedouins

We arrived at Wadi Rum Village by bus from Wadi Musa.  A German girl we met in Petra was on the bus with us.  She was traveling solo, and had some really interesting stories to tell.  We agreed to meet after our Bedouin camping experiences to travel to Aqaba together.

Camel in the backyard
Camel in the backyard

Wadi Rum Village is like no place I have ever seen before.  Picture a wild west town constructed of cinder blocks, set in present day, in the heart of the desert, with some traditional Bedouin goat-hair tents thrown in for good measure.  Some of the houses had camels in the backyard, because where else would they be?  We actually saw a dead cat discarded beside the trash pile, as well as this EPIC set up.  Such a quirky place that we didn’t have near enough time to explore!

Safety First, Wadi Rum Village
Safety First? More like Safety NEVER!

Best of all, the Bedouin hospitality and warmth, combined with a jovial attitude made for a great start to our Wadi Rum experience. We were told to meet our guide Attallah Al-Blwi at the house with the blue door.  When we eventually found the place, I asked if there was a washroom. There was one just across the street.  This was the traditional ceramic hole in the floor with foot “perches”, and a scoop of water from a bucket to flush.  (Really, facilities like this aren’t uncommon, but just so you know what the situation was!)

Riding Camels Wadi Rum Desert
Two of our French Friends in the lead.

While we were waiting we were given sweet Bedouin tea and even free wi-fi which was nice to be able to check e-mail.  Our group consisted of us and 3 French women who were a great trio to hang out with for the day.  The 5 of us opted for a short few-hour camel ride, then a “jeep” tour through the desert before heading to the camp for the night.   The camel ride was actually pretty fun, and mildly terrifying.  Thankfully my camel didn’t bite me!

Wadi Rum had some of the most awe-inspiring vitas of our whole Middle East trip.  Our driver, Halif, took us to Jebel Umm Fruth Rock Bridge, Jebel Burdah Rock Bridge, Lawrence Springs, the Lawrence of Arabia House and to see petroglyphs in Khaz-ali Canyon.

Since Jon had done 99.9% of the planning for the trip, I wasn’t sure what to expect when we arrived at the camp.  The set-up was way more posh than I had been expecting, and actually quite cute.  For dinner we had Zarb.  I am thankful it wasn’t Mansaf.

Sunset over Wadi Rum Desert
Sunset over Wadi Rum Desert

Doing this tour was definitely worth it.  After all, it isn’t every day I get to ride a camel through the Jordanian desert!   I’ll be sure to cross that off my bucket list.

Have you crossed anything off of your list lately?
~j